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Wednesday, January 27, 2010

A Season or a Lifetime??

"People come into your life for a reason. A Lifetime or a Season."-- I stumbled across this line in an email a friend sent me. You will find the entire content after I do some talking :D.. A little patience is all you'll need! :-)

How true this is! When I take sit comfortably, close my eyes and think about all the people who come into my life, for a day, for a month, for an year, a couple of years, some for a lifetime.. I actually understand how much impact each one of them make. Each person with his/her own reason(s).

I however don't agree on the fact that Destiny has its own role and how there's a plot in everyone's life which entangles with other's lives... This is absolute non-sense, I feel.... Anyways, this is how I feel...
Here's the rest of the content from the email.... A lot of it is true, some parts of it are assumptions... Here it goes.....

"People come into your life for a reason. A Lifetime or a Season.
When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person...
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need either of you have expressed..

They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support..
To aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend and they are. (
Here's where I disagree. There is nothing which is god-sent. You make relations and you're not forced to make one. This probably is because I don't believe in a Supreme being which gives/revokes rights to us. I don't term myself an atheist either. If people have followed something for centuries, there has to be something solid which still makes them follow/believe it. But I ain't one amongst em'!!)
They are the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.

What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.(
I Disagree again! Its not always that our need has been met, desires fulfilled, and their work-Done..)
Its now time to move on!!


Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh...
They may teach you something you have never done.

They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe me, it is real. But only for a Season!


Lifetime relationships teach you lifetime lessons.
Things you must build upon, in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the Lesson.

Love the person and put what you have learned, to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that Love is Blind but Friendship is Clairvoyant.


TO EVERYONE WHO HAS BEEN A PART OF MY LIFE. TO EVERYONE WHO HAS BROUGHT ME ENDLESS HAPPINESS AND ENDLESS SORROWS, TEARS FILLED WITH LAUGHTER AND THOSE WITH PAIN. TO THOSE WHO HELPED ME BECOME SOCIAL AND THOSE WHO DETACHED ME FROM IT.
TO ANYONE WHO HAS COME ACROSS ME IN MY LIFETIME, PROVIDING ME A NEW INSIGHT INTO LIFE WITH EACH ENCOUNTER---"THANK YOU FOR BEING A PART OF MY LIFE. WHETHER YOU WERE FOR A REASON, A SEASON OR A LIFETIME."

~~Peace

R.o.H.i.T....


4 comments:

devilzangel said...

:P hahaa uv jus elaborated on sumthin tht i so truly blv :p tht season reason n lifetime theory lolll :p

Manjari Singh said...

Hmmm I think I too got this mail.

I totally agree that some people step into your life for a reason.

I got a huge crush on this worthless when in college. He REJECTED me as I was a tomboy then. I used to sob day and night and ask myself why did he come into my life.
But I got the answer. He was there to make me real GIRL, that I desperately needed to be.

He came back after a year, after seeing the transformation he proposed me and I REJECTED

Raghu said...

Good one boy.. Again, its ur line.. Neelo Chala Talent Eundhi Ro...!!!!!

RoHiT Iyer said...

@ Khushboo--> Glad you liked it...:)

@ Manjari--> hehehe.. that's quite a story you've got.. might make a nice post :).. thanks

@ Raghu--> hehehe.. thanks dude :D